When looking at this I realize that life is the same
way. It is truly what we focus on in
life and business. Many people look at
all of the negatives things coming at them and this increases. This is not because there are necessarily
more negative things but because this is where their focus lies. If your focus is on to many meetings and the
traffic was horrible today then that is what you will see.
The same goes for the people that focus on the positive
aspects of their day. The positive is
what they are focused on and this is what happens in their life. The key to being satisfied with where you are
is to focus on the positive. I would say
that anything can be turned into a positive experience just by focusing on the “data”. It is a simple thing to do when you are in a
situation that you perceive as negative take a few steps back and see where
this might turn into a positive experience.
This brings to mind a couple that I saw that had
lost everything in hurricane Sandy. You
would think that they would be unhappy and devastated through the terrible tragedy
that had hit them. This was anything
from the truth the event to them had brought them closer together and bonded
them as a couple. So it really is how
you look at the “data” that can make a difference in how you see the
world. The funny part is once you start looking
at the positive, things do get better and life just happens and through it all
you are happy.
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